Welcome
Daniel Stillwell
PhD in Family Therapy
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)
AAMFT-Approved Supervisor
He, Him, His
7 Principles of Great Therapy
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Therapy structure and process match the needs of the client system.
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Clients feel safe enough to challenge and be challenged.
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There is integration of the 6 human dimensions: biology, emotions, cognition, behavior, relationships, and spirituality.
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Understanding and treatment are both developmental.
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Increasing strengths, values, and resiliency is just as important as decreasing symptoms, insecurities, and traumas.
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Ambiguity and discomfort are okay and temporary.
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Therapists work themselves out of a job by helping the client system function on its own.
I use a variety of methods and techniques in my clinical work. As a previous professor, I am familiar with nearly all of the main psychotherapeutic models. For those who know the lingo, I identify as a postmodern, experiential cyberneticist. For everyone else, this means that I work without judgment, starting with the assumption we all have access to truth and none of our truth is complete. We need each other. I also work in the moment, drawing from theories which emphasize being present and embracing the discomfort of growth. Lastly, this means I conceptualize each client as an interconnected and interdependent organism in which dynamics and patterns are often the most effective place to enact change.
For coaching and consultation, I bring my expertise to bear, but will not be using official techniques to treat anything. Essentially we will develop a plan of action and I will help guide you where you say you want to go.
Come and be empowered.
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